Non-family, Caring Mentors are Crucial in the Lives of Young People
Feb 18, 2026
While parents and other family members are important in the success of young people’s lives, experts say that the presence of non-family, caring adults who serve as mentors to youth and teenagers is also important.
Such adults can offer support that positively affects a young person’s mental and emotional well-being, social skills, and academic success and helps to broaden their horizons. Plus, they can also act as an advocate. The Center for Parent & Teen Communication indicates that “Mentors offer a range of critical help, guidance, and resources. From helping teens prepare for a job interview to reviewing school essays, to teaching them life skills, there’s much to be gained. Adult mentors help teens navigate through their community.”
Mentors can provide support to youth of all ages that’s distinct from the support of their parents. For example, it’s normal for youth to struggle with gaining independence from their parents and reject their advice. Sometimes youth feel more comfortable talking to and sharing with adults who aren’t their parents—simply because they’re not their parents.
In his study, the author of an online article in Psychology Today found that “Young people agreed that mentoring relationships were most successful when mentors didn’t see themselves merely as teachers, advisors, and role models, and instead considered themselves listeners, encouragers, supporters, and co-learners.”
If this sounds like you, make a positive difference in the lives of local young people! FamilyMeans is looking for friendly, caring adults to volunteer with participants of our Youth Development program—alongside program staff members. Youth Development offers after-school and summer programs to youth ages 5-18 at two sites: Landfall and Cimarron (Lake Elmo).
Share your time, interests, and hobbies with young people; whether it’s arts and crafts, sports and games, creative play, reading, cooking, science projects, or help with homework, you’ll both benefit from time spent together!
For more information, call FamilyMeans at (651) 439-4840 and ask to speak with our volunteer coordinator or visit https://www.familymeans.org/youth-development-volunteer.html.